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How to choose a hospital for your delivery?


I happened to switch 3 doctors in 9 months of my pregnancy; different doctor in different trimester and that is not how I wanted it. Pregnancy is a beautiful and unforgettable 40 weeks journey; made or marred by the doctors you choose. I had to change doctors, not because I wasn’t comfortable with them, but because of some unavoidable situations. I delivered in Gurgaon, which was a fairly new area for me and my family, that made it even more difficult for us to decide where to deliver. We got in touch with friends in and around Delhi/Gurgaon; each had a different experience to share about the various famous hospitals. We searched the internet; also checked the Facebook/google reviews of the hospitals and contacted the moms who delivered there (this was a slow process; but we got honest reviews from them). My Ob-gynae was a visiting doctor; she was attached to most of the top-rated hospitals in Gurgaon, but left it on me to decide where to deliver.  We visited two of the hospitals that we had shortlisted; did a hospital tour and then came to decide where we wanted to have our baby. It is important to have a good doctor first; hospital can be decided after choosing the doctor. Your task will be simplified if the doctor himself/herself suggests you the hospital.

The factors that could be kept in mind while deciding on to the hospital for your delivery

1.       Proximity to where you live, it is advisable to choose a hospital that you can reach in 20-30 minutes maximum. Please consider the traffic at the oddest hours, babies come unannounced and I am sure you wouldn’t want to deliver in a car, stuck in traffic; that would make a great birth story to tell though!
2.       Infrastructure, by infrastructure I mean the hospital should be able to handle any emergency that may arise and also should have in-house or empaneled reputed blood-banks, laboratory etc.
3.       Budget, of course to choose a hospital that promises to be in your budget
4.       It is also important to check with your insurance company which hospitals and up to what limit is covered by the company.
5.       Low C-section rate or a higher vaginal birth rate : If you are keen on having a normal delivery then this may be a thing to check beforehand.
6.       Old hospital vs New hospital; old hospitals have all the infrastructure established and set. The staff is familiar with the system and accustomed to the operating procedures; also the staff may be lackadaisical. New hospitals have their own set of challenges, having said that, a new hospital would always try to deliver what they promise.

Questions you may look at asking your prospective hospital before finalizing it

1.       Whether the hospital offers special birthing/delivery packages? Two of the hospitals where we checked at had same package rate for C-section and normal deliveries, only one extra room night was added to the cost of C-section as one generally needs to stay one extra night in C-section deliveries.
2.       Are consumables included or excluded in the package?
3.       Are there any hidden charges; like for printing of reports, registration etc.? I was told that many hospitals have these charges.
4.       Do you allow the spouse or a family member to be present in delivery room?
5.       Who can stay with me in the hospital?
6.       What kind of post-natal assistance is given in the hospital?
7.       Does the hospital have lactation consultants?
8.       Does the hospital have a neonatologist (a pediatrician who specializes in new born care)
9.       How long will I have to stay, in both the cases (C-section/normal)?
10.   Would the siblings be allowed in the labor and delivery room?
11.    What is the nurse and patient ratio?


These are the things that I could think of! If there is anything that you feel is missing please comment and let me know.

Hope this is useful for “parents-to-be” who are stuck in deciding the hospital for delivery.

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Prenatal Exercises

Just when you come to know that you are expecting a tiny being your life changes. Everything you do is well thought out, everything that gets into your body too is well checked for its benefits. Well I am sure I am not the only one like that because google and many pregnancy/parenting apps had just like me, more crazier mothers to be.

 I started with prenatal yoga when I was 14weeks pregnant. These are the basic exercises for moms to be that they could keep doing till the day of their delivery. 
The super 5 exercises which were my go to exercises that I stuck to throughout my pregnancy are given below. These are the exercises I would recommend to all. However it is advised to always check with your doctor or healthcare provider before starting any of it. 
1. Cat and camel stretch- this is the most natural pose for all animals ( on all fours) being in this position helps strengthen the core abdominal muscles. You need to get on all fours, in a way that your hands get straight under your shoulders and the knees straight under your hips. Now you need to bring your neck down, stretch your back up arching, with chin touching your chest. hold it there for 10 seconds and get back to your normal position.

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2. Kegel- kegel strengthens the perineal muscles during pregnancy and can also help you develop the ability to control these muscles while one is in labor and while delivering. Kegel is probably the simplest and easiest of exercises to perform with whole lot of benefits especially during pregnancy and post pregnancy. You just need to contract your pelvic muscles (just like we do while holding our pee), hold for few seconds and relax; again after 5-10 seconds repeat the process.
3. Pelvic tilts- this is another simple exercise that can be performed anywhere (kitchen, toilet, office). This helps in strengthening the abdominal muscles and reducing the back pain. 10-20 tilts a couple of times a day are recommended. The pelvic tilts can be done forward/backwards & sideways; during pregnancy forward/backward tilts are considered most useful. You need to stand straight with your feet shoulder distance apart. Put your hand on your lower waist; push your tummy towards the back in a way that only your hips(pelvic area) moves while the entire body remains still.
4. Squats- It is advised to initially start with half squats and then moving to full squats later, there are many variations in squats, I however stuck to standard squats during my pregnancy. Squatting helps in opening up the pelvic opening and is extremely helpful for a smoother delivery.
Stand straight with your feet a bit more than shoulder length apart with your toes pointing outwards to get better balance. Put your hands on your thighs and lower your back in a squatting position. Ensure that your knees are not protruding outwards.

Half Squat
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5. Walking- i started with walking for 20 minutes and increased gradually by my last trimester i was walking at least for an hour a day.  
Other exercises that could be included are-
1. Butterfly pose:- strengthens the thigh and groin muscles and helps in a smooth delivery when practised regularly during pregnancy.
2. Pranayam:- these breathing exercises help in relieving stress; improve blood circulation and increase oxygen level in our body. Certain breathing exercises where one is required to hold the breath for long should be avoided.
3.Swimming (although I didn’t do it):- Swimming has not one but many benefits during pregnancy; I couldn’t swim because of harsh North-Indian winter and inaccessibility to a good swimming pool close by.

My prenatal yoga journey began with Rolly’s Yoga Art in Mumbai; Rolly is a great instructor and a true guide, especially for the first time moms who need a lot of hand holding, from diet-plan, menu-plan to hospital bag, from nausea to nursing she has answers to all your questions.

Click here to go to her Facebook page: Rolly’s yoga art

My other friend in this yoga journey was Lara Dutta; yes, I ardently followed her YouTube video when I had to move to Gurgaon and did not have Rolly’s classes to go to.

This post wouldn’t be complete without a picture of me doing the exercise with my full term baby bump.

Thank you for reading; for other pregnancy and parenting related stuff from me do check out other posts on my blog.

Check here to know  what you need to pack for your delivery 🙂